In the era of Facebook, Twitter and Instagram, people are as connected as they’ve ever been. We can hop on Skype and talk face to face with someone on the other side of the planet. 

Gone are the days of snail mail where we have to write a letter, take it to the post office, and wait for the mail carrier to deliver it to the recipient in order to communicate with someone far away. Now we can send an email or a text and the message arrives in a matter of seconds. 

We can talk to anyone, anywhere, at anytime.

We are, indeed, more available, but are we actually more connected? Do our connections go any deeper than a superficial level? Just because we can connect with anyone whenever we want to doesn’t mean we’re getting anything out of those connections.

This is definitely true when it comes to our romantic relationships. We can tweet cute messages to our partner, post adorable pictures of each other on Instagram, and share loving stories on Facebook, but is that actually doing anything for our relationships? 

How do we know our relationships are anything but superficial? How can we be sure we’re taking our relationships to the next level? How can we know whether our partner is the one for us? 

Here are 10 fun, yet revealing, questions you can ask your partner to take your relationship deeper and evaluate where you currently are:

1. What’s the first thing you would do if you won the lottery?

A lot of the things we do in life are constrained by money, or the lack of it. The clothes we wear, the food we eat, the hobbies we have, and even our friends can be determined by the amount of money we have.

But what if money wasn’t an issue? This is a very telling question to ask because it reveals our true values and what we really care about in life. If we win the lottery and we are no longer held back by money, we are free to do whatever we want. We can travel, do charity work, and buy whatever our hearts desire. The answer to this question tells a lot about a person.

2. Does everything happen for a reason? 

People typically either believe in destiny, that everything happens for a reason, or they believe in chance, that everything that happens is random and there is no real rhyme or reason. This is a very thought-provoking question that is sure to lead to an interesting conversation. 

3. What is your biggest regret? 

This question can sometimes be a hard one to answer. It’s usually very personal and can be very embarrassing. No one likes talking about regrets, and some people don’t even believe in regrets. This will go a long way in finding out what your partner’s values really are. 

4. If you were suddenly invincible, what’s the first thing you would do? 

This question basically removes fear from the equation and lets us do anything we can think of. We could skydive, climb Mount Everest, or get a nice spandex suit and become a superhero with no fear. 

Or, your partner could be the type of person that would play practical jokes on everyone to make people think they died and then upload the reaction videos to YouTube. This is a fun question that also reveals a lot about a person.

5. If you could relive any year of your life, which one would it be? 

This questions usually goes one of two ways. Your partner will either want to go back and relive an amazing year of his life all over again, or he’ll want to go back and fix a year that wasn’t so great. Either way, the answers to this question are always enlightening. 

6. Which do you prefer, a good book or a night out?

This question reveals a lot about your partner’s personality type. Introverts will almost always pick the good book, and extroverts will typically want a night out. This will also determine how compatible you are with your partner. Issues can arise if you want to stay home and read when he always wants to party. 

7. What advice would you give your younger self?  

This question can get surprisingly personal. It usually ends up being a mixture of sad and sweet. Who wouldn’t jump at the opportunity to impart wisdom on our younger selves? This is also a great way to open up conversation about your childhood.

8. When is the last time you cried? 

Some people won’t want to answer this one. They either won’t want to admit to crying, or they won’t want to talk about what made them cry. This one can be tough, but if you allow yourselves to open up and talk about it, amazing things can happen.

9. What’s something you never want to do again?  

This question usually tells us about some of the hardest times in our partners lives. These times are usually the most transformative, so the answer can allow us to see what has made them into the person they are today.

10. What is one thing that is absolutely unforgivable?  

Be sure to take notes when your partner answers this one. This answer is usually shaped by prior life experiences. If they’ve been hurt by a previous partner’s cheating, being cheated on is a likely answer here. You might also discover that your partner is very forgiving and can forgive almost anything.

Keep the fire of passion burning in your relationship! Feed it each day with fun rituals like this. Enjoy!

…And ready to learn how to make it a reality?

Isn’t it time to stop struggling to find the LOVE you deserve? To figure out what you want in a partner and go out there and GET IT? To keep the past in the past and build healthy new relationships?

To be LOVED?

Truly joyful, happy relationships have two people that know what they want in their partners. They know the difference between infatuation and love. They know how to overcome the bumps in the road when they get to them.  

They are FOCUSED on communication, intimacy, and keeping the spark alive. They know what they want from a relationship and what their partner wants as well. And because of this, their relationship succeeds in the long term. 

And yet we tend to lose hope so easily when it comes to having a successful relationship. We give up because we think it’s too hard. 

…PAST RELATIONSHIPS HAVE HURT US.

…WE DON’T KNOW WHAT WE REALLY WANT.

…WE DON’T UNDERSTAND BASIC COMMUNICATION PATTERNS.

Bill Lemley says, “When nobody around you seems to measure up, it’s time to check your yardstick.”

Do you know what you actually want in a relationship? Are you asking for too much?  Not enough?

Do you believe that you can have a successful long term relationship? Do you have faith that, even though you’ve had some bad relationships in the past, you can still have successful relationships in the future? And…do you know HOW to create those relationships?

Ask yourself…

• Am I currently happy with my relationship?

• Is my self esteem attracting me to others?

• Are you loving your partner the way they want to be loved?

• Would my life be better if I could answer the question, “Are You The One I Want?”

From the time we’re young, we’re implanted with false ideas of what it means to be in a relationship. We spend our entire lives looking for our “soulmate.”

False ideas like these:

• “There’s nobody out there for me.”

• “Only a few couples manage to achieve that.”

• “I’ve never been in a happy relationship.”

• “Love isn’t real.”

• “Everyone gets divorced now, why even bother…”

It’s like living in isolation.

We desperately want to find the partner we deserve and BREAK THROUGH the past relationships that have held us back.

We need to figure out WHY we’ve made bad choices in the past and how to make better decisions in the future… so we won’t let anything stand in the way of the love we deserve.

But we don’t know how.

We feel stuck. Discouraged. Overcome by the weight of previous failed relationships.

But what if there were a solution?

A way to conquer our past relationships, understand the difference between infatuation and love, know what we want, keep the spark alive, and CONFRONT hurt and disappointment?

Now there is…

Introducing…

True Love: How to Find Your Soulmate

The step-by-step process to know the difference between infatuation and love, conquer past relationships, discover the qualities of your ideal partner, and much more!

This powerful course contains 24 lessons that lead you on a step-by-step journey to teach you how to have a SUCCESSFUL relationship. A journey of figuring out if it’s love or oxytocin, knowing the importance of sexuality and sensuality, and overcoming the obstacles. 

A journey to the long-term relationship you deserve. 

In this life-changing course, you’ll learn:

• The SURPRISING ways the chemistry of your body contributes to infatuation
• How to OVERCOME the soulmate myth
• How to ELIMINATE negative relationship programming from your childhood
• How to PREPARE yourself for communication
  
• Techniques to MOVE from infatuation to love
• How to ACCEPT change
• How to DETERMINE what you need in a relationship
• How to identify OBSTACLES and then conquer them
• STRATEGIES to keep the spark 
• And so much more!

This powerful journey could absolutely change your life.

In 20 years, you could look back on THIS as the time when you finally realized you were capable of a successful long term relationship. 

When you accepted love. 

When you stopped being held back by your past relationships, discouraged because you didn’t understand what love was, and developed the relationship you were DESTINED to have. 

This is your moment. 

Your fork in the road. 

Your door to a happy relationship. 

The key to the cage has been given to you. You can either open the cage or throw it away. 

It’s your choice. Will you be loved or lonely?

You could try to learn all of this on your own, but it would require hours upon hours of reading and research. 

You wouldn’t have the guidance of an expert. 

And you wouldn’t really know if you were making progress. 

Or you could be taken by the hand and guided on this life changing journey. 

Which will it be?

There are 3 modules with 24 total lessons. The lessons are:

#1 – Is It Love or Is It Oxytocin?

You read about it in books; you sing about it songs. Romantic movies are based upon it. You’ve probably felt it yourself. The “it” is love’s first bite, that feeling of being head over heels in love with someone. But in order to know if a person is right for you, you need to know the difference between true love and the chemicals your body produces. That’s what this lesson is all about. 

#2 – Childhood Reverberations

The chemicals in your brain aren’t the only aspect of attraction. How you grew up, your relationship with your family, and the beliefs you formed about relationships are major factors in who you’re attracted to. This lesson will help you look at some of those influences and understand how they influence who you are today.

#3 – Beware of the Need to Fill the Emptiness Within

Now that you’ve explored the chemical nature of infatuation and the childhood influences of attraction, it’s time to discover how you may be choosing someone to fill an emptiness within you. This lesson will help you know whether you’re finding love or simply looking to fill a hole. 

#4 – The Soulmate Myth

Now that you know the danger of choosing a partner based upon body chemistry,  feelings of need, or familiarity, let’s examine the concept of a soulmate. Is it real…or a myth? This lesson will unlock everything you need to know about the concept of the soulmate. 

#5 – The Role Of Past Relationships

Your past relationships play a huge role in terms of who you’re attracted to. This lesson will help you identify how your past relationships have shaped you, both for good and bad. You’ll also discover what things you need to be aware of as you open up to future relationships. 

#6 – Un-Crushing the Crush

In this lesson, you’ll learn strategies to make it through a break-up as quickly as possible. Once you learn to move past a break-up, you’re ready to open up to the one you truly want. This lesson will teach you to how move past the heartache of a breakup and be ready for a new relationship. 

#7 – Do You Love You?

Relationships are the most fulfilling and the most painful teachers in life. In relationships you learn the type of people you are attracted to and what characteristics drive you crazy. But here’s the thing: if you don’t love yourself, you’re prone to making relationship mistakes. This lesson is going to help you determine whether you truly love yourself. 

#8 – Module 1 Summary and Reflection

You now know your choice of relationship partners is directed by the relationships of your parents or primary caretakers in childhood, that the chemicals your body produces have a powerful effect upon your feelings, and that your self-image is important in choosing a partner. It’s time to reflect on what you’ve learned, as well as think through how you’re going to implement these things in your life. 

#9 – Unknown Influences in Relationships

Every relationship has unknown influences that can be both good and bad. The key to a successful relationship is knowing what subconscious things influence you. This lesson will help you unlock the key influences in your relationships and help you manage them appropriately 

#10 – What’s Important: Physical or Emotional Intimacy?

For a relationship to be successful, it’s important to understand both physical and emotional intimacy. Some people want physical intimacy more than emotional, and vice versa. This module will help you understand what you want in terms of intimacy and teach you to understand what others want as well. 

#11 – Will You Communicate With Me?

When you speak, you may understand your words in one way while your partner may understand them completely differently. This can have a massive impact on your relationship. In this lesson you’ll learn more about key communication strategies and the different ways people understand what is said to them.

#12 – Sexuality and Sensuality

Understanding your sexuality and sensuality can deeply enhance your relationship. But many people either don’t understand their sexual and sensual desires or don’t communicate them clearly. This lesson will help you communicate honestly with your partner about your needs and desires.

#13 – What’s Your Love Language?

Each person has a unique love language. Some people feel loved when words are spoken, while others feel loved by acts of service. You need to know what your love language is. In this lesson, you’ll learn that what others do or say that results in you feeling loved, cared for, and appreciated.

#14 – The Challenge of Change

This lesson is to help you look beyond those initial passionate stages of the relationship to where you’re celebrating 30, 40, or 50 years together. Those 40+ year relationships faced down a number of challenges by using very specific strategies and skills. This module will teach you the skills needed to get past those challenges. 

#15 – What Do You Want Most?

In this lesson, you’ll go through a guided process to discover what is most important to you. This process will bring greater clarity to what you really, truly, deeply want in a partner. You’ll be guided through a series of questions that will help you know what you really desire in a relationship. 

#16 – Module 2 Summary and Reflection

In this lesson, you’re going to reflect on all that you’ve learned about what you want in a partner. You understand the things that make you tick, and now it’s time to think about how you’re going to put those into practice in your relationships. 

#17 – What’s Your Programming?

As much as you’ve worked on overcoming what you might call “negative patterns,” there is one specific time they pop up again: during times of stress. Stress can throw you back into the past. Reverting to unhealthy behavior patterns can damage your relationship. This lesson will help you prepare for times of stress, so you can respond in a healthy and supportive manner. 

#18 – Is it a Mistake or a Pattern?

In this lesson, you’ll discover the difference between mistakes and patterns. A mistake is something everyone makes. It happens once, perhaps twice, and you learn from it. A pattern is an ingrained way of behaving which is difficult to change. You’re going to learn to identify the patterns in your life so you can eliminate them in the future. 

#19 – What Are Your Non-Negotiables?

Leading up to this lesson, you’ve spent a lot of time reflecting on what you really want in a relationship. Now it’s time to decide on your non-negotiables. This lesson will help you map out the things that you absolutely must have in a relationship, as well as the things that aren’t as important.

#20 – Confronting Hurt And Disappointment

Relationships can change in an instant due to the hidden emotional “mindfield” within everyone. Every relationship will have some measure of hurt and disappointment. It’s simply how relationships are. But you can learn to confront those things in healthy ways that actually strengthen your relationship. That’s what you’ll learn in this lesson. 

#21 – Can You Forgive and Forget?

In the previous lesson, you examined ways to respond when things go wrong in your relationship. In this lesson, you’ll learn about forgiveness and releasing the pain of past hurts. The ability to forgive is key to having a healthy relationship, and this lesson will guide you through the steps necessary for forgiveness to happen. 

#22 – Relationships are Wonderful

You’ve been delving into some tough information. By the very nature of this course, you’ve looked at challenges and difficulties in relationships. When you focus on them, the tendency is to see only the challenges in relationships. The focus of this lesson is to examine whether you are ready for a committed long-term relationship. Relationships are truly wonderful, but you need to be willing to commit to them. 

#23 – Strategies to Keep the Spark

What you’ll learn in this lesson is as important as the previous 22 lessons. You’ll find suggestions which have kept many a relationship strong through the difficult times.

Life gets routine. You each have a daily routine of work and responsibilities. If you have children, they can take up much of your time. To support your commitment to each other, you need to carve out time just for the two of you. This lesson will give you key strategies for keeping the spark in your relationship.

#24 – Module 3 Summary and Reflection

During this course, you may come in touch with feelings and memories that are painful, yet crucial to strengthening your relationships. That takes courage. This lesson will help you reflect on all you’ve learned and consider how to implement it in your life. 

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Normally, live in-person workshops cost $500 to $1,000 and my digital courses like this cost over $299.

But today, you’re going to get access to this entire life-changing program for ONLY $99.

And you’ll get the entire system:

• 24 lessons to lead you on the journey to true love ($299 value)
• Additional resources, reflections, and affirmations to help you apply and implement what you’ve learned ($99 value)
• 3 module quizzes to empower you to remember the key points ($99 value)
• A thorough understanding of what you need to do to create a successful long-term relationship (PRICELESS)
• Priority email support

Finally, you’re going to…

• Let NOTHING stop you from accomplishing your relationship goals

• PURSUE that relationship you’ve been thinking about so long

• Overcome ALL the negative relationships that have held you back

• FINALLY learn to work through the obstacles 

• Learn what YOU want from a relationship

• STOP putting it off and START making forward progress today

Isn’t it time to embrace the love you deserve?

To have the relationship you know you deserve?

The choice is yours. 

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